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Nov 15, 20215 min read
An Un-Presidented Move
The story of how a boy played make believe all the way into his 40s, burned out, became The President, then finally became himself.
Sep 21, 20214 min read
Burnout Cure? Intimacy.
Scientists say that burnout is a workplace issue. I disagree. If we're to recover from burnout, we need to explore intimacy across our lives
May 10, 20215 min read
How Emotional Impotence Harms Men
No man wants to be labeled "impotent". There's a multi-billion dollar market to prove that. So why are men ok with emotional impotence?
Mar 3, 20211 min read
I'm Not Afraid To Talk About It...
I have come to realize that one of my gifts is being unafraid of talking about "it". ("It" being the topics that make most of us squirm...)
Jan 31, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 20 - Courageous Intimacy
The most courageous act a man can take is to be intimate, to really open up to the world around him and be seen for who he is.
Jan 29, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 19 - Silent Intimacy
Intimacy can be found most readily when we allow ourselves to enter into silent spaces in ourselves and with others.
Jan 26, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 18 - Wholeness & Intimacy
By trusting that all people are naturally creative, resourceful, and whole, I am able to enter into intimate situations with confidence.
Jan 21, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 17 - Pandemic Intimacy
Intimacy lives in silent spaces. In this video I explore a couple of safe, practical, and profound ways to practice intimacy right now.
Jan 20, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 16 - Intimacy IRL
I was inspired today to share an "In Real Life" example of emotional intimacy. Check out the summary of how I used that to create healing.
Jan 19, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 15 - Intimate Vulnerability
We all make mistakes. Living with them, instead of sharing and reconciling them, can erode our sense of intimacy with ourselves and others.
Jan 18, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 14 - Romantic Intimacy
One of the biggest desires most men have is for a robust love life that includes great sexual intimacy. How do we create it, though???
Jan 15, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 13 - Intimacy with Family
Bringing intimacy into our oldest relationships can be tricky. There are often old patterns to overcome. Intimacy can be a way past those...
Jan 14, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 12 - Intimacy at Work
You probably work a lot - and I bet you have work stress. Developing intimacy with colleagues can help make your work life a lot easier.
Jan 13, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 11 - Intimate Parenting
Being a great Dad is my #1 value in life. The only way I know how to honor that value is to bring intimacy into my parenting.
Jan 12, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 10 - Intimacy w/Friends
Can you be intimate with your friends?? Absolutely! In fact, it might be the best place to start building your new intimacy skills...
Jan 11, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 9 - Intimacy w/Ourselves
Can we be intimate with ourselves? Absolutely! In fact, if we don't spend time on that, we'll struggle in finding intimacy with others.
Jan 8, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 8 - Sexual Intimacy
Intimacy is often equated with sex on a simplistic basis. Yet true sexual intimacy requires a degree of openness that can be hard for men.
Jan 7, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 7 - Emotional Intimacy
Emotions are like jet fuel. Swallow them at your own peril. Or put them to good use and see how far you can fly!
Jan 6, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 6 - Spiritual Intimacy
Spiritual intimacy isn't necessarily what you think it is. It has *something* to do with religion (if you want), but that's not nearly all.
Jan 5, 20211 min read
The Men's Intimacy Minute, Vol. 5 - Intellectual Intimacy
The way we engage in debate with others can either erode intimacy or create it. There are a few keys to making it the latter...
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